Moved a bunch of stuff today, Texted the w and told her wont be able to take kids to gym, still moving stuff. She texted back and lit me up about not making plans with the kids unless I am 100% sure i can do it. What i would have done before is bitch back and defend, but she is correct I cannot do that to my kids, so I just replied" your right".
Then she texted me that our S got in trouble at school already on his second day, hit and pushed a kid in his class. W says we need to be firm with him and compasionate at the same time, that he is going through a lot right now, and since we are switching ins companies we cannot take him to his therapist. I agreed with her, and said I can take him to my C office which have therapist who wirk with people on tight funds. She said she didnt want to change him from his current therapist. That she would figure it out.
I did not reply. This is where I need to figure out the best way to contact her on the kids. She enrolled the S in a school before telling me and also took him to a therapist without talking with me about it first. It is disrespectful, SO any advice on what to write??? I think I need coach or puppy or Robx on this one..... She is overstepping again, and this is one boundary i need to put in place. Help...