I hate to see you in this position. Your wife has no idea what kind of damage she is doing to her children. You are the one that needs to stay strong for your kids, and it sounds like you are doing a great job of it. Just keep on taking it one day at a time. Hang in there, I know you can do it.
Me 33 Wife 28 Together 6 yrs, Married 3.5 Bomb 07/06/2010, Separated 07/06/2010 Finally Discovered Physical Affair 08/24/2010