Thanks everyone for all the support. I don't know what I'd do without this site to come to. You are all so supportive and wise and can help me see what is in front of my face but can't see.
Yes, I've been down the last week or so. Now that there is a court date, I can't help but worry about financial matters, i.e., he refuses to sign so we can put the house up for sale. Thinks the judge will just auction it off. We'd lose everything if that happened, and probably still owe on it. I can get a re-fi, but why do that when I don't want to stay here anyway?
August just seems to never end. His silence is just what I need right now to gain back my perspective and stamina. Wait, make that his silence and a 12 pack of Bud lite w/ lime.
