21 years of marriage hanging by a thread

[LSG]

Chuck,

Do not stop DBing. Do it for yourself, not your W. Do it for the "other fish in the sea."

I intend to take what I have gained here for the person I meet that will treat me the way I want too. I do not want to have this experience define my future relationships or Marriage. If I find a good woman, I want to be a good man for her.

Do not give up on yourself and the efforts you have made here. It never stops.

Be positive and good to yourself.