Wife filed for divorce...Is there still hope?

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DanF,

There a court order to pay me, and she finally did yesterday. I caught up my individual bank accout, and deposited the rest. I will catch up my credit cards, so I keep my credit good. I will be able to use them if I need to as well. It is the minor things I will do. I need to pay a payment on cell phone to. I have to put the rest away for a place to move too.

I am hoping to have an interview this week and nail it, so I am working.

You are good guy, and the way you have been toward your W is the way it should be. I would do the same thing if I was in your position with my W. But not everyone does the right thing. She did not do the right thing by an affair and not having adequate amounts of food in the house me and especially the kids.

I appreciate you telling me this because you are the one paying your W support. I have wondered how you would think about me taking support from my W. I guess I have not felt very manly these days. In society being a man having spousal and child support just is not looked at very favorably.

Thank you for putting this in perspective the way you have. I have been a little sensitive about my situation sometimes. To be honest, I am very embarrassed about it.

I am will try to man-up as much much as possible in the coming weeks.

I hope the best for you and your kids always. You are doing so good.