A friend emailed him about boundaries, because he is just coming over to the house when he wants and she thinks that isn't fair to me. So now H wants to change our Labor Day plans of driving 12 hours together and him taking the boys to a football game. The 3 of them are to fly home (connecting flights, so I can't have the kids do that alone), so H wants to just fly up and get them that day and have me drive them up myself that Friday night (I'm ok driving during the day, not overnight to get to a game the next day). He said about 10x, that the boys need to get used to that there IS NO MORE 4 OF US and this is just sending the wrong message. And that by my chosing to stay in TN that it is my choice to drive at night with them. These plans were all made before I knew that he was in love with some slut. I did stay calm on the phone and didn't let any of the comments I wanted to make to slip out. I was even cheerful. So here I am venting and wanting to run home and stop living here, but then if we were 12 hours away would there be any chance to save my M?????
Me 48, H49, M24, S14, S11 DB #1 4/2002-8/2003 Bomb #2 August 2010 & he moved out Living with OW
