Uh uh. The fact that she concealed going on a bike ride w/ him and brought him into your own home without your knowledge (so disrespectful) of which you only found out by mistake is not right, Khudoo. As a woman, I will tell you I think there is something happening between them.
Soleil
The fact that I called her strongly on that is what caused her email response above. Now to be fair I was never a jealous type of guy and if this had of happened when our R was good it would not have concerned me at all.
One thing is even though they had no idea that i was in the other room and could hear everything they said I didn't hear anything unusual or suspicious.
My problem with it this time was that our R is very fragile if existent and I already have a bad feeling about this guy. Under those circumstances I told her it was very disrespectful to both me and the kids. I just told her we will be separated soon enough and if she wanted to meet up with him do it somewhere else.
Thats when she said she will break off contact with him outside work but i don't believe her.
