It started with at least a EA. She didn't love me anymore... I went to counseling when it first happened, she wouldn't go. She said why "so they can tell me how I should feel" I think I avoid talk for fear of the end. Wimpy huh. Should I say calmly "we can't sweep this under the rug anymore. What do we need to do to make things better and to correct why this happened?" Does that sound like a good way to start? I have to go somewhere with this, it's not healthy. Oh, the other thing is I haven't asked for any reassurance that she is not still in contact (through e-mail) with OM When she was moving back I said no more contact with OM and she said I know that. And that was the last time it was brought up.
