It really does take two to save a marriage and that means at some point your H needs to step up and work on himself and your marriage.
No matter what happens, you will always know that you tried repeatedly over many years.
Old can also be a state of mind. I know that a little over a year ago, I felt old. Today I don't feel nearly as old as my wife and I are in love again and I am in pretty good shape.
One of the standard pieces of advice (that I am sure you have heard often) is to GAL and include exercise in it. Pregnancy with exercise will make things a lot better, give you a good excuse and may even give you more energy and make you feel younger.
Good luck.
>43 years of marriage--My wife and I are now closer than we have been in decades. I believe that my SSM is over.
