Another long term relationship bombed

[pookie69]

You lay out that you have a plan for staying together or reconciling (which you need to do - it helps you detach and be prepared).

Did you mean "staying together or separating"?

Let me confirm this (I think I'm running on 3 cylinders here):

Get a plan together for both instances and serve the option without revealing the plans. Wait for the answer and then execute the corresponding plan.