Maybe the Infedlity board is where I took off the rose colored glasses. I was there for nearly 2 years. Surviving is dealing with the after/healing/thriving stuff. smile Most days I thrive and then I can get spun around a bit.

I was doing pretty good this Spring until the old boyfriend I had reconnected with(not dating just met with)decides to up and start a relationship with some girl he knew from 10 years ago when she was all of 19. He is 46. They have never dated but he moved her back here(really MO)end of June and are now living together. He is 46. They did see each other with family always around a whopping 13 days in a 2 month period prior to this.

I think he has gone into MLC fantasy land. He has 3 kids(one married, one headed off for college just last friday and his baby boy is 16) and she has 2 boys 5 and 4. She knew his kids from her old college days. I have lots of thoughts on this, but if you could give me your 2 cents(or more) I would appreciate it!

Oh and maybe I should throw in, he is doing very well financially.

kat

PS. I am having a hard time letting this go...

Me-53(and learning!)
S24, S21, D18, D17
Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory