Sorry I did out allot of details. I knew this was going to be long. I have been going to IC for about 7 monthes now. I have told her that lying during our MC would not help us and lying is not helping at all. I found out the buddy she was talking to was an ex boy friend and had lyed to me for years about that fact. I just am starting to feel hopeless but I know we need to work this out for our girls.


Me:33
W:34
DD(1st marriage):12 lives with mom
DD:4
DD:3
M:6
day she said didn't want to be married: 06/2009
EA:02/2010 as far as I know
day I told her I knew:05/2010