Sorry I did out allot of details. I knew this was going to be long. I have been going to IC for about 7 monthes now. I have told her that lying during our MC would not help us and lying is not helping at all. I found out the buddy she was talking to was an ex boy friend and had lyed to me for years about that fact. I just am starting to feel hopeless but I know we need to work this out for our girls.
Me:33 W:34 DD(1st marriage):12 lives with mom DD:4 DD:3 M:6 day she said didn't want to be married: 06/2009 EA:02/2010 as far as I know day I told her I knew:05/2010