Thanks FMV. Our communication is basically like friends. There isn't any talk from either one of us about what happened. I don't know how to approach that. She has a wall up so I can't truly tell her how much she means to me, how good she looks, how glad I am she's here.Things that I think she wanted from me years ago that I didn't do. Sex...none. For a while I thought she was getting close, hugging daily, things were looking like they were going in the right direction. Then when her sister moved, bam, 10 steps backwards. Her sister left her H more than 2yrs ago, started dating a man less than a year and moved to where he lived.Her sister was close to her but is my wife thinking her sister did it why can't I take that step? I do believe W is in a depression. She came back on sunday from visiting her sister with her family and complained about all the annoying things that happened. It doesn't seem as though anything makes her happy.I listened very intently and with concern and she did feel much better when we were done. I just don't know how many more slaps(emotional)in the face I can take. The things she doesn't include me in is like she mentally doesn't admit that we are trying to make things work.I don't think she respects me and do believe looks at me as weak. Her sleeping in a seperate room bothers me horribly, we are roomates. Roomates that laugh and tald together well.
