ok, gardener, things have been moving so fast I haven't had a chance to get back on here! got one better than contacting HR, even! my contact person there, to whom I sent a resume this morning, emailed it to the trauma department, bypassing HR and saving at least a week!!!
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012
