I cannot force her to move even though I have said before that the one who is unhappy should leave. The house has been under her name for the past 7 years out of 10 years we've lived in it.
I can offer to buy out her half - that's the possibility.
The deadline is looming because she asked me to commit to a date when I could give her the answer what I want to do and I did.
I understand that I don't have to agree to either of us to move and tell her something completely different but the alternative is to tell her that I feel strongly that the current stalemate needs to end and I would be committed to work on myself and my half of the issues. If she disagrees I will say that I need to move out then.