But has he taken any ownership for his behavior and acknowledged the pain he has caused you, apologized for it, and stated the changes he is committed to making?
IOW, have there been overtures of true reconciling or just sporadic, sweep-it-under-the-rug resuming?
If the former, you need to see immediate, marked, and sustained change. If the latter, you are (understandably) needy and accepting crumbs at the very least or, at worst, being used - and using him.
Sorry to sound harsh. Just my (distant) perspective.
Peace,
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
