When I confronted her about him here was her response. I did not really know how to take it. You vets may be better at interpreting it.
Below is her email response
As angry as I was when you mentioned this I have had time to settle my initial reaction. In response to your allegations I am tired of the same claims. I feel I cannot hang around any male friend, specifically "name" without your suspicions rising.
I too am getting worn down by all the [censored] flinging and yes I was on a bike ride with him today because I like not having to think of this crappy situation and found this was the case just driving around.
I know it bugs you that we are friends but in the sake of peace, from now on I will not spend anytime with him, as perhaps that is what will calm this situation down.
I don't know how many times we need to go over this subject and what else I can do to make you believe otherwise, other than what I said above.
I am truly sorry you are hurting and know that probably means nothing coming from me so I am only hoping that by not hanging around him will help in the interim.