You need to have your plan thought out and ready to articulate to your wife. No pressure (she doesn't have to decide or choose anything) on her. Let her go so she can decide what to do.




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It is very hard to be interesting if your W knows you so well.


Then you really need to think about how selfish you are by asking her to stay with someone who is boring her out of her skull. (sarcasm intended sleep) Put yourself in her shoes. You can reinvent yourself and still be you. Become attractive because it will help your relationship or it will help you down the road.


M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12
Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.