IDU,

I appreciate your post so much.

I have no trouble hearing anything that could help me though this situation. I use to be defensive, but I need the help.

You are right I should not be treated like this or allow myself to be. I just have been trying to buy myself sometime. The more time I have the more money I will have too.

It is just part of the reason I have allowed her to treat me this way.

I am not fooling anyone here. I am doing exactly as I have posted. I know you are just making a point,and I get that too.

I do need to call out the CB on her. I guess I have just been so worried that she would move before I am ready and able to do the same.


I do see that I need to show the kids that this is not the way you treat anyone. I will have to consider this and do it for the kids. I need them to be good people and be treated with respect in their own Ms.

Always keep it real with me. Do not hold back anything. I have nothing but respect for you. I respect what you and everyone here is trying to tell me. I get it. I just need to do it.

Thank you very much for telling what I need to hear.


ME-41 W-33 M-8 D-8 S-4 D 5/17/2010
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