I just re-read some of the posts, and the kids are taking their cues from me and I need to be strong. I work at home, so I can break down when they are at school, but when they are around I need to suck it up. I looked up divorcecare and a group starts here in September, so that is good. I must set some GAL goals, but I still need to follow through on my "set him free" goals.
So H called and I just relayed some facts to him, he had some house issues to share with me and I shared some kid stuff, though I did tell him S11 had a rough night last night, I just stated it, didn't try to guilt it up, but I'm wondering if I should even relay that information. S11 wants to talk to him and I want H to know that he is upset when he gets voicemail. But I was upbeat during the conversation, let him know I told the guidance couselor since S11 is struggling and didn't tell the new church I just registered. So many land mines to be avoiding. Overall, behaved much more how I want to behave than last night.
Me 48, H49, M24, S14, S11 DB #1 4/2002-8/2003 Bomb #2 August 2010 & he moved out Living with OW