So what I'm hearing is that I can reciprocate, but since I'm not fully detached, it's not good for me to do so right now. She doesn't feel she has lost me, so by me reciprocating affection, it just tells her that I'm not detached and she still has me under her thumb.
You're also saying that if I was fully detached, reciprocating affection to her that she initiates would not be a bad thing because she would know that she has lost me, and her mentality would be that of pursuing, rather than maintaining.
Correct?
You are getting it.
"I have some things I need to decide and I don't want to give you the wrong idea. Plus, how you have been acting lately is just not attractive."
If you can't say that with all seriousness then don't try to fake a statement like that.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
