Right Coach, just b/c I sign the papers doesn't mean I don't stop working on me. If she notices it great, if not, it wasn't meant to be.

As I wrote that last post I thought of the Stockdale paradox.

I think about it quite often.

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It amazed me when things worked just like I had been told (Because my sitch was unique just like everybody else's.)


Aren't the all???

I get it. Keep working on me and learning about communicating with woman. learn to see things from their perspective and respond in a manner that they would appreciate. Stay true to my character and do not let my morals or values be compromised.

Take control of my family by leading them to a healthy and fulfilling life. Have my opinions about things even if they conflict with hers. It's OK to disagree and even argue, as long as it's done in a loving way.

Don't get caught up with all the negatives things she does and do focus on a healthy R.

OH yeah, be happy with myself especially when around W. Radiate a postive aura.
This is why am still come here.
thanks guys!





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