you may want to approach the guy directly, perhaps even bluffing that you have something on him. Or better yet, start with his wife. He just MIGHT finger your wife (sorry for the phrase) as the one who's batchit crazy/bunny-boiling here, and IF you could get him to do a "Look, I told you, I'm NOT leaving my wife over you, so get that thru your crazy head!" . . . well, that would kill it dead in its tracks.
I agree with this.
If she switched from night to day without even so much as hinting at being upset, then it sounds like something is definitely up.
Originally Posted By: Khudoo
Her friends advice to her was that hooking up with another guy was not going to fix any of her issues.
Your feeling about this guy may be spot on. Have you ever seen them together? That fact that her friends told her "involving someone else" is a HUGE RED FLAG.
