Not sure where to start, or end. WAW?

[john28]

Thanks for the 2x4 PMA, much needed.

I'm afraid that it will turn into the same situation that Pinhead's W went through. When he stopped all loving attention she shut him down because of the hurt that he caused in the past.

My W's main issue was - She was lonely. She's said that in every MC session we've had to every single person she knows. I wasn't around. I wasn't a good father. I wasn't a helpful husband.

It feels like doing that same exact thing now would not be a 180.

I have been doing what doesn't work, and I see where's it gotten me. I guess I just need to trust this community that dropping all affection is the way to go.