Thanks for the good advice R2C. I can see a bit of me in you and I am sure that I will be fine whenever this all shakes out.
You are welcome. Everything will be fine no matter what happens.
During this difficult time, it is important to self reflect. Determine your core values....
Is anything more important than time with your kids?
We have a very small window of time to influence them... 182x10 = 1820 days.....until they leave the nest...read parenting with love and logic by Cline (follow link in my thread) ...
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712