Also one of her best friends also agrees with you Puppy. She said to me that there must be someone else as it doesn't make sense but she has never seen any evidence nor has any idea of who it could be.
Her friends advice to her was that hooking up with another guy was not going to fix any of her issues. They are all very supportive of our R while still hanging with her. They have been very vocal in saying that she should slow down and consider what she is doing.