I hear you, so I'm trying to play this very cool, but sometimes it feels so stupid. Why don't I just go to her and say "You say you're worried I'll never get past what happened, yet you're keeping OM on your FB page. How am I supposed to let it go when you can't? Is keeping him on your FB page worth destroying our chances at reconciliation and us not going to Disney together as a family? Is this really what you want?"
Does that make me look weak?
Does she need to be "broken" again, and come to me? I feel like if I had said in our meeting "W, you keeping him on FB is making it impossible for me to trust you to reconcile, and start to be a family again" she would have taken him off. I didn't think to say that, so here we are. Obviously if she really wanted me to go, pride notwithstanding, she would proactively take him off FB and ask me if I'm now willing to go.
