So now I'm in a pickle on 2 counts: 1) I invited Mr. A to come with me to golf tonight even though I really don't want him to be there,
You really have to examine why you did/do this. Don't want him there? Call him and tell him you've decided it would not be comfortable for you to have him there.
Originally Posted By: Mrs. A
and 2) I want to see Mr. A before my trip but I don't know how I would do that without rearranging my schedule....Any suggestions on what to do next? I'm completely at a loss!
Decide what you want/do not want. Set boundaries. Stick to them. But you know this. You are sending mixed signals and jerking the both of you around. Why?
Peace,
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac