Yes I agree. There still is attachment on both sides. So is it safe to say, if the attachment is still there, and I be the attractive fun loving guy, it can rekindle things? It does make me happier to be that way anyway. So I guess I cant lose if I keep doing what I am doing with zero expectations. I will not let her run my show, she can run her show the way she wants.
I am not going to be readily available to her, she is getting space, and she needs to miss me, for the good things in me, that is what I display in her presence.