I'm sorry, there is STILL a huge missing piece to the puzzle here, Khudoo. Women don't get this despondent -- and throw away their marriages -- over the way their spouse's son is acting, especially when she only brought it up once maybe two years ago.
This is all just wayward DEFLECTION.
There is either someone else, or some THING else that you haven't told us so far.
Puppy
Puppy, I agree and that is what is confusing to me but it is all I know and I really tried to find out.
Again as i stated before i had my suspicions about one guy but could find no evidence. I am still not completely convinced she is not with him but that is coming from my gut and not anything i have seen. I also realize that gut feelings are a strong indicator.
She still comes home on time and when she goes out it is usually to some mutual friends who tend to mention to me when she is over at their house.
The only thing I can think of is she WANTS to be with him and she see's this as a way of encouraging that but that would seem like a pretty big risk on her part. I know from conversations before all this went down that his wife keeps him on a tight leash.
There is nothing else I know and that is why this is all such a big shock to me and why when she mentions her reasons that I have difficulty accepting them. If I knew there was an OM it may make things more understandable to me.
