kat, that's a great suggestion. You're right if you need help just ask a guy straight out "do you think you can help me with xyz?".
NB, it was really just a general question- nice try though I do say "how can I help? or what can I do to help?" but then my inner "superman" takes over
CG, funny that sounds so familiar. Yes, I work in IT and when a co-worker tells me she has a problem with her computer I usually tell her to call the helpdesk- unless she's cute in which case I give her mine right there on the spot and tell my boss my computer fried I'm taking the rest of the day off- a win-win
Sol, I'm a master validator...that sounds hot doesn't it?
I think Oscar Wilde was correct:
"Don't give a woman advice; one should never give a woman anything she can't wear in the evening"
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again
I do say "how can I help? or what can I do to help?" but then my inner "superman" takes over 
