IMO .....she means it right now. Does that mean that she cannot change her mind? No. She can. Do you understand that it is her mind to make up?
Look we talk about MLC fog, MLC phases..the reality is that in her mind YOU are the cause of all of her issues. So I think she believes what SHE FEELS.
Will she ever wake up? Who the hell knows. It is not easy - nor is your work. Nope..I have watched you post over the past few months and what I see is a lack of self reflection. A lack of working on you. A lack of trying to live your life. Maybe you just dont post what you are doing for you. Maybe not.
What I think you really need to do is begin to really live your life as if she is not coming back.
Stop looking at every one of your interactions with her. You are spending way too much time trying to determine which phase she is in. I can imagine that you keep asking yourself...is she coming out...is today the day. Stop it dude. It does no good.
Many come here looking for the quick fix. This is a long....let me repeat....long process. The process is both YOURS and hers.
So what is your process? Answer that one.
God Bless Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
