stop thinking in terms of "doormat" or "kicking her to the curb"
you are enabling her to continue leading you in this "limbo" (lol). you should be helping her to make a decision.
recall Schrödinger's cat there are multiple realities, you determine the outcome.
the idea for the date was for tonight, because of the g-string. Thrusday is tomorrow's dream. Take her out for cake. Double chocolate. Death by chocolate.