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I need more caffeine... And you all mocked me when I chose Pinhead as my moniker.

I'm a systems administrator, and a writer. Yeah, ironic considering that email.

Here's the revision:

Don't snoop through my email.

I understand that you might get offended when people advise me to protect myself. This is part of the collateral damage done when families are approaching separation and divorce. I've been honest with you about my plans and intentions from the beginning, and I haven't done anything to break that trust.

I have nothing to hide, and I won't lock my computer either. But your actions are disrespectful to me and to our relationship.

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Originally Posted By: Coach
No,take a lap for being a bonehead. You don't go on about how you feel. It's feminine.

You don't tell her she's the victim (that was for your benefit). Remember it's how she feels, your job is to __________. You invalidated how she feels.

You might not bet blasted but you just went backwards in her mind.

What do you do for a living?


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Don't snoop through my email.

I understand that you might get offended when people advise me to protect myself. This is part of the collateral damage done when families are approaching separation and divorce. I've been honest with you about my plans and intentions from the beginning, and I haven't done anything to break that trust.

I have nothing to hide, and I have no reason to lock my computer at this time. won't lock my computer either. But your actions are disrespectful to me and to our relationship. If you ever have any concerns or questions then ask and I will answer.


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you haven't sent the email, yet?

Good. Go rub one out instead.

She'll be tossing those g-strings and bringing you home a playboy after reading that.

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I think you are too wrapped up in terminology.

stop thinking in terms of "doormat" or "kicking her to the curb"

you are enabling her to continue leading you in this "limbo" (lol). you should be helping her to make a decision.

recall Schrödinger's cat there are multiple realities, you determine the outcome.



the idea for the date was for tonight, because of the g-string. Thrusday is tomorrow's dream. Take her out for cake. Double chocolate. Death by chocolate.

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Death by chocolate.


Death by Bunga-Bunga.

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Originally Posted By: Steve McQueen
I think you are too wrapped up in terminology.

stop thinking in terms of "doormat" or "kicking her to the curb"

you are enabling her to continue leading you in this "limbo" (lol). you should be helping her to make a decision.

recall Schrödinger's cat there are multiple realities, you determine the outcome.



the idea for the date was for tonight, because of the g-string. Thrusday is tomorrow's dream. Take her out for cake. Double chocolate. Death by chocolate.


Getting a sitter on this short a notice will be tough. Maybe I'll have to do a date at home or something innovative.

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Originally Posted By: Steve McQueen
you haven't sent the email, yet?

Good. Go rub one out instead.

She'll be tossing those g-strings and bringing you home a playboy after reading that.


Nah, it hadn't been sent out yet. Send Coach's revision.

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Originally Posted By: Coach
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Death by chocolate.


Death by Bunga-Bunga.

whistle


I backed up right into that one. ouch.

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Originally Posted By: Steve McQueen
Originally Posted By: Coach
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Death by chocolate.


Death by Bunga-Bunga.

whistle


I backed up right into that one. ouch.


And that's not something you want to backup into...

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