4) I also like the emphasis on looking out for myself and my own needs in the context of doing this. I definitely get more time with kids from doing this, and she also gives me little desserts when I come over around dinner time and gives me breakfast if I come over in AM.
How often does she invite you over for dinner so that you can share a meal with your children and her?
Giving you little desserts almost sounds as if she's giving you treats for being a good little doggy, it's not a nice comparison to be made but something that sticks out to me.
