I said "Hey, maybe we don't have to get divorced cause we were never married"
This falls into the R talk category. Time to bring out the duct tape from your garage and keep them affixed to the hip so it is handy and accessible (hey, why not buy a tool belt as you go along!? ). This comment makes you sound desperate and trying to get W to change her POV.
I don't know if you actually work in a car dealership or not. But you can end the convo as in: "W, thanks...I can't stay on the line long. I need to bring up some paperwork that needs to be processed now in another department here. We can discuss this later."
This buys you time to formulate a plan in regards to the W's concerns about paperwork. What are they and ABSOLUTELY require your involvement? You need to use discernment here. Separate the wheat from the chaff. Do you need to get roped into this? Need to collect facts on what W is looking for exactly. Remember you have NO obligation to do W's leg work other than firewalling your finances.
SSN on any paperwork is to do the following:
1) Take out a loan 2) Apply for credit card 3) Employment verification 4) Obtaining passport 5) Etc Etc
You get the idea. Where is W's thought process with this? Does it impact you in any way? Remember no sense in losing your shirt in this process.
What were the four calls in regards to...anything of importance and/or relvance?
). This comment makes you sound desperate and trying to get W to change her POV.
