Dont know what it means TH, sometimes I feel she does things to keep me around, just in case she changes her mind. Other times I think she is being nice so we are civil through all of this. I read other threads where the WAW is angry and bitter and does not initiate any contact or do anything nice for the LBS, W has not been that way after she left, she has been reaching out a little bit. I guess I could be reading too much into it, but that little bit of hope says they are good signs, but again I keep my expectations near 0 and tell my self the D is around the corner.