It's the attractivity thing: if you are enjoying yourself, at some point he's probably going to get curious, and if he doesn't, well... you enjoyed yourself anyway.
Really? It's odd - I hear that time and time again on these boards and never really thought I could make that work for me. I guess I always just figured if I went and made more of a life for myself that didn't include him it (or that I didn't drag him down and wrestle him into) that it would just make the distance even worse and would lead to our breakup that much sooner. But I guess my way isn't working much better either. Who wants to be wrestled / guilted into spending time with someone. Especially someone whom you already think is a touch on the dull side.
I cannot complain for not receiving from others, that which I've never asked them for.
