she has been texting me more, she also sent a video from her backyard of a family of ducks near a pond. Thought that was a bit odd. I responded back 30 mins later saying the ducks are cute and you picked a good place. I do not respond to everything, I know I need to be less available to her, but at the same time, I am trying to be cordial. This is where I get torn, I am trying to balance being a good father and just a good person in general, funny and nonconfrontational. Am i doing too much right now? it seems to be getting positive results and no arguments. I dont bring anything up regarding the D(in process) or the R at all.