What do you do with a spouse who mostly respects your boundaries but is boundaryless themselves and resort to ultimatums and threats?
I keep doing the right thing. I listen. I observe. I think about what they say. Can I translate their statement to a boundary? I do not react. When I have decided what the best response is, I take the appropriate action.
Can you supply us with a couple ultimatums and threats? We can come up with suggested responses...
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
