The way you present it, it doesn't seem that needy.
I am betting, however, that if you-and any girlfriends you might have or make--start doing things on your own if he doesn't want to come, however, that over time he will wonder if he should tag along sometimes.
It's the attractivity thing: if you are enjoying yourself, at some point he's probably going to get curious, and if he doesn't, well... you enjoyed yourself anyway.
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