LSG,

You where done before, you are done now. Your wife has built up a comfort level in the nastiness she is dishing to you. Perhaps what was inside of her before when she loved you and your marriage is no longer there.

The best thing I did in my situation was move on to the next. It really opened up my eyes in that it is a wide world, and the situation my wife defined for me should not recieve, all, most or even hardly any of my attention.

Thats it. Have a good day, and get back on the positive track you where on.

Stop weathering the storm your wife dish and continue living the rest of your life.