Originally Posted By: TimeHeals

Are you always the one compromising?

YES!!! Thank you. That's exactly the way I feel. I don't know if that's the 'actual' reality. But that's 'my' reality.

Originally Posted By: TimeHeals
You have to do some things you enjoy, and if he doesn't want to participate, you might have to do them alone.

Yes. And thank you again. This is exactly where i get stuck. If to be able to anything that I want to do, I'm going to have to do it alone (and with the knowledge that my H thinks I/my activities are boring)... then that little voice in the back of my head says 'then why be married'?


I cannot complain for not receiving from others, that which I've never asked them for.