He said "well it sounds kinda... you know... can't we go and do some of 'this'?" (or something like that... ie it was his idea of fun). What do I say to that? So now if I resist it then I'm the one being not agreeable. But if I go along, I feel like I'm - I don't know. But I don't like it.
Ok... the subject of compromise rears its ugly head.
Are you always the one compromising? You have to do some things you enjoy, and if he doesn't want to participate, you might have to do them alone.
Only you know your situation and whether or not this compromise is likely to backfire on you.
As for the: "well it sounds kinda... you know... can't we go and do some of 'this'?" .
If it's something you think you are going to enjoy, then tell him... "It's something I think I might enjoy doing, and even if I am wrong about that, I want to do it. I want to do some things that are different sometimes.".
Then you make the call on the compromises.
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