ps - it's not that I have to have him come. I mean, I know it's optional for him. I never expected him to. It's just that he acts like it's 'less than' his ideas. If he didn't want to come, why didn't he just say, 'Hey that sounds like fun, but no thanks - I think I'd rather do 'x'". Why does he turn it into a put down about what he thinks of me and my activities?


I cannot complain for not receiving from others, that which I've never asked them for.