DanF, I've been reading your posts for sometime, our sitch is very similar. I have to say reading your latest posts it sounds like you are really focusing on what's important, you and your kids and not letting anything get in the way.
Keep it up, I know its not easy, I still struggle with it daily.
Me 44 H 39 Met in 1998 Married in 2004 D 5, twins Bomb - May 16th, 2010
"Don't let Tomorrow or Yesterday get in the way of Today"