Thanks for the support Time. Appreciated. I'm a little confused though. I get what you're saying about trying not to look at past negative events to judge my present (at least I think that's what you're saying) but I guess the whole 'my husband thinks I'm a dud' thing isn't in the past. It's now. The only way he said he'd want to come with me on my trip is if we changed to doing something fun that he wanted to do. He said "well it sounds kinda... you know... can't we go and do some of 'this'?" (or something like that... ie it was his idea of fun). What do I say to that? So now if I resist it then I'm the one being not agreeable. But if I go along, I feel like I'm - I don't know. But I don't like it.
I cannot complain for not receiving from others, that which I've never asked them for.
