I think it is time to man up here...I say this out of respect, your W is acting vile and doing it in front of your children.
She is holding all the cards...
She has all the money, dishes out food to you as if you are a child, gives you quarters to do laundry, witholds food from you etc...
There comes a point when those wedding vows are not as important anymore. This would be that point. It’s time for you to move forward and for her to move out.
Why should you have to suffer in your relationship with a woman who clearly doesn’t want to be married any longer and hurts you every chance she gets?
It is time to take a firmer approach at this because the doormat approach isn't working.
(((Hugs)))
May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~
