Hugs (((kat)))- we all know now that marriage is just a piece of paper if the idea behind it holds no value to the people in it and he's proven already how much he values a M. Also, don't forget that his M won't change a thing in YOUR life, the sun will still come up, the birds will still chirp, the life will go on, things will be how they are today or how they've been for you the past couple of years. So screw him! if he wants to take a bath in the sh!t pool hey who're you to feel bad...
Lastly I wanted to say that in addition to being a great, hardworking mom you're also one of the smarter people I know and you'll get through this phase ok too.
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again