Had a meeting with my IC this morning. He seems to think that based on W's behavior she does not have both feet out the door just yet.
My decision deadline is approaching. IC recommended to "bet on a horse" and lay out my thoughts as follows:
"I will move out if you want me to. I will be fine without you however I prefer to have you along in my life. I think that it is worth taking another look at our situation. I agree that the current R is dead and the status quo needs to end but I prefer to try to re-create ourselves to work on a new R.
I will stand by you and be supportive with your struggle through your health issues as long as you let me to.
If you ask me to move out, I will but I would prefer to maintain a R that allows for us to re-create ourselves.
These are my thoughts towards the decision that needs to be made."
IC did not think that this is too pursuing given the fact that there have been some signals that W may have second thoughts but would not budge until she sees that I have made some decisions whatever they may be. He also said that it's okay to put that in writing and give it to her because they are just thoughts and not the final decision.
